If this generation has its own Bogs and Mae ( Paano Na Kaya, 2010) and Palits and Marian ( near to you, 2006 ), well my generation had our adorable bff’s Budjoy camster and Ned from Marvin & Jolina’s 1998 film called “ Labs Kita, Okay Lang? ” (i understand, throwback! ). Each is fictional tales of youth close friends secretly dropping in deep love with one another but had been both reluctant to manage and acknowledge their emotions in order to preserve the relationship.

Ang daming madaling maka-relate sa mga ganitong movie themes since male-female friend relationships that are best have grown to be not merely feasible, but quite typical today. And I’d want to share my two cents worth onto it.

So, could it be ok to be close friends with some body of this sex? This is certainly contrary

Sleepover with a few of my girlfriends within my Baguio apt.

I usually get this question, and my answer would always be that while I do not see cross-gender best friend relationships as morally wrong, I definitely do not encourage and advocate them when I give talks about relationships. Check out good explanations why:

? Our teenage and very very early twenty years can be sensibly utilized in purchasing healthier same-sex friendships. Whilst it’s correct that of the very crucial social transitions in adolescence may be the development of other-sex peer relationships for social and psychological modification, this doesn’t necessarily imply that opposite-sex friend relationships that are best (OSBFR) will soon be very beneficial. Read More